It is not easy! It hurts too much mess in memories, because the pain is still poignant.
I suggest everyone to read the lovely message from the author Egidio Trambaiolli Neto, which both helps us at this time. In his message published in Portuguese and English on your blog, http://egidiotneto.blogspot.com he speaks a bit of sadness we feel and the posthumous tribute to Lee that he will do in the book he is releasing.
Forever Mr. Young